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The Penthouse View · Understand … First

Conviction Over Convenience: The Decisions That Define Us

07/13/2025 Alain Mbe

“When it comes time to make an important decision, remember: conviction trumps convenience.” We all reach crossroads in life where a decision must be made — moments that ask us… Continue reading Conviction Over Convenience: The Decisions That Define Us

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Polygamy Isn’t the Problem — Our Inability to Love Is

07/13/2025 Alain Mbe

When people talk about relationships, they often point fingers at structures—monogamy, polygamy, divorce, single parenting—as if the structure alone determines the success or failure of love. But from my lived… Continue reading Polygamy Isn’t the Problem — Our Inability to Love Is

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When Love Is Not Love: The Truth About Wanting Children for Ourselves

07/13/2025 Alain Mbe

“It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men.” — Frederick Douglass Children are among life’s most precious gifts. For many, the desire to have a child… Continue reading When Love Is Not Love: The Truth About Wanting Children for Ourselves

Communication · Relationships · Transformation

Communicating to Be Understood

07/12/2025 Alain Mbe

Because Caring Means Making Yourself Clear “The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place.” — George Bernard Shaw In a world that speaks so… Continue reading Communicating to Be Understood

Change · Transformation

What You See Will Persist

07/07/202507/07/2025 Alain Mbe

Why People Rarely Change Without a Wake-Up Call “When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.” — Maya Angelou We live in a culture of hope… Continue reading What You See Will Persist

Love · Understand Relationships First

Love Is Not a Feeling: Why CARE Is the Foundation of True Love

07/07/2025 Alain Mbe

“Love is not about how much you say ‘I love you,’ but how much you prove that it’s true.” – Unknown We throw around the word love far too easily.… Continue reading Love Is Not a Feeling: Why CARE Is the Foundation of True Love

Transformation

I write because I care

07/06/202507/07/2025 Alain Mbe

There’s a question I’ve often been asked—sometimes directly, sometimes in the silence of a raised eyebrow or a passing glance at yet another one of my reflections posted online: “Who… Continue reading I write because I care

Love

Love Isn’t Enough: Why CARE Is the Oxygen of a Lasting Relationship

07/06/202507/12/2025 Alain Mbe

“Tu peux aimer profondément quelqu’un… et quand même souffrir dans la relation.” Love is beautiful. But if there’s one truth our generation is slowly discovering—sometimes painfully—it’s this: love alone doesn’t… Continue reading Love Isn’t Enough: Why CARE Is the Oxygen of a Lasting Relationship

Parenting

A Child Fatherless Is Left Directionless

07/05/2025 Alain Mbe

« Un enfant sans père est un enfant sans repère. » – French proverb There is a deep and haunting truth in this French saying: “Un enfant sans père est… Continue reading A Child Fatherless Is Left Directionless

Communication

🧩 Building on Tellier: “Le silence toxique : Pourquoi ne rien dire ruine plus que tout”

07/05/2025 Alain Mbe

. Gabriel Tellier describes toxic silence as more than the absence of speech—it’s “l’absence de lien” that “raye, corrode, durcit” the relationship over time  . He warns that silence isn’t neutral… Continue reading 🧩 Building on Tellier: “Le silence toxique : Pourquoi ne rien dire ruine plus que tout”

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