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Change · Transformation

What You See Will Persist

07/07/202507/07/2025 Alain Mbe

Why People Rarely Change Without a Wake-Up Call “When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.” — Maya Angelou We live in a culture of hope… Continue reading What You See Will Persist

Love · Understand Relationships First

Love Is Not a Feeling: Why CARE Is the Foundation of True Love

07/07/2025 Alain Mbe

“Love is not about how much you say ‘I love you,’ but how much you prove that it’s true.” – Unknown We throw around the word love far too easily.… Continue reading Love Is Not a Feeling: Why CARE Is the Foundation of True Love

Transformation

I write because I care

07/06/202507/07/2025 Alain Mbe

There’s a question I’ve often been asked—sometimes directly, sometimes in the silence of a raised eyebrow or a passing glance at yet another one of my reflections posted online: “Who… Continue reading I write because I care

Love

Love Isn’t Enough: Why CARE Is the Oxygen of a Lasting Relationship

07/06/2025 Alain Mbe

“Tu peux aimer profondément quelqu’un… et quand même souffrir dans la relation.” Love is beautiful. But if there’s one truth our generation is slowly discovering—sometimes painfully—it’s this: love alone doesn’t… Continue reading Love Isn’t Enough: Why CARE Is the Oxygen of a Lasting Relationship

Parenting

A Child Fatherless Is Left Directionless

07/05/2025 Alain Mbe

« Un enfant sans père est un enfant sans repère. » – French proverb There is a deep and haunting truth in this French saying: “Un enfant sans père est… Continue reading A Child Fatherless Is Left Directionless

Communication

🧩 Building on Tellier: “Le silence toxique : Pourquoi ne rien dire ruine plus que tout”

07/05/2025 Alain Mbe

. Gabriel Tellier describes toxic silence as more than the absence of speech—it’s “l’absence de lien” that “raye, corrode, durcit” the relationship over time  . He warns that silence isn’t neutral… Continue reading 🧩 Building on Tellier: “Le silence toxique : Pourquoi ne rien dire ruine plus que tout”

The Penthouse View

Living in Our Own Worlds: Why Understanding Personal Spheres is the Key to Harmonious Relationships

07/03/2025 Alain Mbe

Living in Our Own Worlds: Why Understanding Personal Spheres is the Key to Harmonious Relationships By Alain Mbe Introduction: The Invisible Bubbles We Live In Picture this: you’re having what… Continue reading Living in Our Own Worlds: Why Understanding Personal Spheres is the Key to Harmonious Relationships

Transformation

I Can and I Will: The Mantra That Changed My Business and My Life

07/01/2025 Alain Mbe

“Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t – you’re right.”— Henry Ford That quote hit me hard the first time I read it. But over time, I… Continue reading I Can and I Will: The Mantra That Changed My Business and My Life

Parenting · Understand Relationships First

The Jury Is Finally Out: The Faith I Chose Without Choosing

07/01/2025 Alain Mbe

After a lifetime of inner deliberation, quiet discomfort, and countless soul-searching moments, I believe I’ve finally found the words to describe the faith I’ve lived—even when I couldn’t name it.… Continue reading The Jury Is Finally Out: The Faith I Chose Without Choosing

Parenting · Understand Yourself First

From Control to Connection: How The Courage to Be Disliked Transformed My Parenting

07/01/2025 Alain Mbe

“You are not living to satisfy the expectations of others. And neither should your children.”— Ichiro Kishimi & Fumitake Koga I used to parent the way I was parented. Not… Continue reading From Control to Connection: How The Courage to Be Disliked Transformed My Parenting

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