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The Many Layers of Commonality: Understanding Yourself Through What You Share

08/21/202508/21/2025 Alain Mbe

When you set out to “understand yourself,” it often feels like a private quest. But the truth is, you can’t fully grasp who you are without recognising what you share… Continue reading The Many Layers of Commonality: Understanding Yourself Through What You Share

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Why Clarity of Roles Matters More Than Initiative in Relationships

08/20/2025 Alain Mbe

“Where there is no order, initiative can become noise.” We often romanticise relationships by praising initiative. We say things like, “It’s the thought that counts,” or “It’s nice when they… Continue reading Why Clarity of Roles Matters More Than Initiative in Relationships

When Consent Is Betrayed
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When Consent Is Betrayed

08/19/202508/19/2025 Alain Mbe

Why Reproductive Coercion Against Men Deserves Equal Outrage “Stealing another person’s future is no less grievous simply because the wound is invisible.” A Global Blind Spot, Slowly Illuminated We’ve long… Continue reading When Consent Is Betrayed

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The Silent War

07/25/202507/25/2025 Alain Mbe

How Parental Alienation Creeps In and Shapes a Child’s Life Forever “The greatest tragedy of divorce is not the broken marriage; it’s the broken child who grows up never knowing… Continue reading The Silent War

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Attitude Will Always Trump Aptitude: Why Kindness Is the Real Competitive Edge

07/17/2025 Alain Mbe

In a world obsessed with skill sets, technical expertise, and credentials, it’s easy to assume that aptitude—the raw ability to perform—is the ultimate currency. It isn’t. Aptitude can get you… Continue reading Attitude Will Always Trump Aptitude: Why Kindness Is the Real Competitive Edge

The Penthouse View · Understand … First

Conviction Over Convenience: The Decisions That Define Us

07/13/2025 Alain Mbe

“When it comes time to make an important decision, remember: conviction trumps convenience.” We all reach crossroads in life where a decision must be made — moments that ask us… Continue reading Conviction Over Convenience: The Decisions That Define Us

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Polygamy Isn’t the Problem — Our Inability to Love Is

07/13/2025 Alain Mbe

When people talk about relationships, they often point fingers at structures—monogamy, polygamy, divorce, single parenting—as if the structure alone determines the success or failure of love. But from my lived… Continue reading Polygamy Isn’t the Problem — Our Inability to Love Is

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When Love Is Not Love: The Truth About Wanting Children for Ourselves

07/13/2025 Alain Mbe

“It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men.” — Frederick Douglass Children are among life’s most precious gifts. For many, the desire to have a child… Continue reading When Love Is Not Love: The Truth About Wanting Children for Ourselves

Communication · Relationships · Transformation

Communicating to Be Understood

07/12/2025 Alain Mbe

Because Caring Means Making Yourself Clear “The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place.” — George Bernard Shaw In a world that speaks so… Continue reading Communicating to Be Understood

Change · Transformation

What You See Will Persist

07/07/202507/07/2025 Alain Mbe

Why People Rarely Change Without a Wake-Up Call “When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.” — Maya Angelou We live in a culture of hope… Continue reading What You See Will Persist

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